Another wedding DIY

Here's another small wedding DIY project...

Small flags for the cakes.

Curious or genuinely interested?

Curious or genuinely interested?

I would say the second applies to me but who is willing to admit that he or she is genuinely curious?

Whereas I would say either way isn't a bad way. It just shows that you still are interested in things outside of your own comfort zone. I'm for sure not loving everyone but that doesn't mean that I'm not interested. Sometimes it's the fascination or maybe even malicious joy and on other occasions it could be empathy, learning from others, thinking outside of the box.

As long as you are acting in a kind way no one will feel laughed at or not taken seriously so is no harm you're doing.

Humans in general are interesting and fascinating in many different ways. This whole big game of action and reaction is not only interesting for psychologists, no, it's even helpful to look at myself. Why are we doing what, why are we feeling served, disappointed, cheated on, etc. Many things just happen because we are thinking in the wrong way, about ourselves or about others. Why should a stranger think something about me, like e.g. "How is she walking" - there are two options why we think that, either we know we are walking quite different compared to others or we don't feel confident in walking which could have thousands of reasons. So who's problem is it, in the end ours. If we want to avoid these thoughts we have to work on ourselves. Work doesn't mean you have to change your style, it could as well just mean we don't care any more about what others may think.

So back to the topic, I love being curious as this is one of the free things in human learning. You don't have to pay a penny to learn from others behavior.

Be keen, enjoy life and grab as many input as you can get - it doesn't harm, it just shows us different options and we may adopt a few and neglect others and that's fine.

Faith in yourself is the greatest thing you can earn,

Miss Faith

Wedding DIY

Here's just a bit of what I prepared up to now for our upcoming wedding.

Handkerchiefs for happy tears

Small tags to hang in a tree (we celebrate in a garden)

A sign for the guestbook

The motto of the day

Our menu cards

Seat cards

I'm more than keen now to see it all on its place - pics of the real wedding decoration will for sure follow.

Take care!

Why the heck...

Why the heck...

...do good movies start in the middle of the night

...does a white denim require washing after once worn

...does it rain during the weekend although the whole week was sunny

...is the chocolate empty whenever you would need it most

...is a helicopter circling above my area in the middle of the night

...is it colder in my flat than outside

...is not everyone talking proper english

...is my work to do list getting longer each day although I'm working

...can't I put everything in the tumble dryer without shrinking

What "why the heck"s do you have?

Slowly calming down - don't lose hope,

Miss Faith

How to be a good couple?

How to be a good couple?

A good partner doesn't make a good couple.

Two persons are able to become one but it's work!

What I realize every now and then is that we both need to look in the same direction, at least for the main parts of our life together.

Sure we will always be two unique persons and we don't need to have the same hobbies but we should have to have the same goal - growing old and wrinkle together.

You don't see too many good couples although they surely exist and the main reason is that they act normal. They don't talk about it in either way, good or bad, they do live.

Comparing yourself with other couples is the start to ruin your relationship as we are talking about humans, what's right for someone hasn't be the right choice or way of life for someone else.

The most important as a couple is to be happy with one another, not with people outside, not with family members or with whoever wants to step in. 

A relationship is a couple thing, it hasn't to be a public topic on how it should be.

I even think that it would be boring for people outside to listen to couple stories, discussion, or fights about their relationship as these moments are intimate, unique and they only belong to these two persons.

If you two go along like you want a relationship to be then it's perfect!

Stay loving your life,

Miss Faith